tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post6751359246911399403..comments2023-11-03T05:49:10.841-04:00Comments on Storytelling Rules: What to do if you're not going to RWAMaureen McGowanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00494408580378817045noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-31183637116695672522010-07-23T14:26:13.846-04:002010-07-23T14:26:13.846-04:00Aw. Thanks, guys. It is a privilege to know both o...Aw. Thanks, guys. It is a privilege to know both of you, tooMaureen McGowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00494408580378817045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-46734405128206776582010-07-23T14:18:06.333-04:002010-07-23T14:18:06.333-04:00Yeah! Ditto to what Eileen said.Yeah! Ditto to what Eileen said.Stephanie Doylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17448686465587131952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-73557635807294946082010-07-23T14:00:55.916-04:002010-07-23T14:00:55.916-04:00I'd like to say one more thing about the confe...I'd like to say one more thing about the conference. This blog has TWO members that are finalists for the most prestigious awards given out by the romance writing community. I know we talked about it when the nominations came out, but I want to note one more time how incredibly awesome Molly and Maureen are.<br /><br />To receive a nomination for the Rita or the Golden Heart, your work has to be of incredibly high quality. You two completely rock the house. I feel privileged to be your blog sister.Eileenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09803986849921870941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-6675727163654503932010-07-23T13:52:51.880-04:002010-07-23T13:52:51.880-04:00Conferences are a tough decision, when I went to m...Conferences are a tough decision, when I went to my first, I didn't have children, and so five days away was easy to manage, and fun. <br /><br />Now, three small children later, it's a huge deal to find the time. I did find them really useful and I'm really glad I went. <br /><br />But I agree with Maureen on the law of diminishing returns. And I'm so incredibly lucky to have close writing friends within an easy distance so we can get together and talk writing. <br /><br />If not, I'd be jonesing to go to several conferences a year.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-73240591251868583702010-07-23T12:56:52.575-04:002010-07-23T12:56:52.575-04:00I think the smaller regional conferences are fanta...I think the smaller regional conferences are fantastic, especially if you're going to actually attend the workshops. I learned so much from them when I was starting out. Now it's harder to find a workshop that's going to cover a lot of material I haven't seen before. I mean, there's always something good, some little kernel of information it seems, in every workshop, but it's not the mind-blowing experience it was when I first started out.<br /><br />I didn't attend a national conference until I'd sold either. I didn't feel like I could justify the expense or the time away from my kids (remember I was a single mom at the time and going away for a week meant dumping my kids on a friend or a sibling for that time). It's been invaluable on the networking front, but my foot was already in the door a little bit and that made it MUCH easier.Eileenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09803986849921870941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-12771243751926352552010-07-23T12:41:04.573-04:002010-07-23T12:41:04.573-04:00I totally agree, Steph. And I expect Sinead does, ...I totally agree, Steph. And I expect Sinead does, too. So much to learn at conferences at every stage of your career.<br /><br />But there might be a law of diminishing returns after a certain number of conferences, if you don't have "promote my books" or "meet with my agent and editor" to add to the benefits. <br />I'm with Sinead on the "I think I now need a reason other than learning the craft and networking to justify spending so much money."<br /><br />Not that I don't learn something new every year, or meet more people.. But if I add up all the money I've spent on conferences... better not to think about it. la la la...<br /><br />But I'm a recovering conference whore. Went to an embarrassing number back when I on my first agent hunt. And smaller conferences WAY better for that.Maureen McGowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00494408580378817045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-17287856887601450482010-07-23T12:18:54.502-04:002010-07-23T12:18:54.502-04:00See in hindsight - I almost wish I had done the co...See in hindsight - I almost wish I had done the conf. thing before being published. <br /><br />I went to my first right after I got bought because I was going to have dinner/lunch with my editor and I thought that face time was important.<br /><br />I missed out on a lot of the "craft" workshops that would have been good for me. Because once I was published - I focused on the business side only.<br /><br />Now - I do more craft workshops. Some have me rolling my eyes. But others have been good.<br /><br />And so true that conferences don't get you published.<br /><br />But they're fun and for me vitally important because it's really the only 4 days out of the a year I get to talk about writing with writers. <br /><br />At least since this blog started....<br /><br />This blog has been huge for me. So thank you again DWT.Stephanie Doylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17448686465587131952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29864506.post-14001042845097244122010-07-23T10:49:09.438-04:002010-07-23T10:49:09.438-04:00Oh! 10K next week! Awesome goal, Sinead! My goal i...Oh! 10K next week! Awesome goal, Sinead! My goal is to write 500 a day while I'm down there.<br /><br />This was a great post. I've seen writers on loops etc. complain that they'll never get published because they can't afford or don't have time to go to conferences. Which is, um, ridiculous and just another big old excuse for not trying.<br /><br />It always comes down to the writing. Doesn't matter whether you've "met" the agent or editor through a query letter or a pitch meeting. And while there are a lot of intangible benefits to knowing a lot of writers, it's not going to get you published...Maureen McGowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00494408580378817045noreply@blogger.com